Red Kite Interviews a Student Financial Services Advisor

Red Kite interviews Kim Bowen, a former Student Financial Services Advisor at St. Edward’s University.

Navigating financial aid can be overwhelming, and the process doesn’t end once you’re enrolled in college. It’s crucial to keep an eye on your college costs, which can fluctuate from semester to semester.

It’s no small feat to balance taking classes with managing your tuition expenses. Many students turn to campus experts for guidance, relying on financial aid counselors to help ensure both academic and financial success.

We recently had the chance to sit down with Kim Bowen, a former student financial aid services advisor at St. Edward’s University. She shared valuable and practical advice to help students with the complexities of financial aid.

Let’s get into Kim’s insights on how students can make the most of financial aid opportunities. These insider tips from an expert might make all the difference in your financial aid journey.

Red Kite: Please tell us a little bit about your background – where are you from? What was your school life like growing up?

Kim Bowen: I was born and raised in Houston, Texas. I attended public school and played the flute in the elementary, junior high and high school bands. I especially loved marching band in high school and have life-long friends from those days.

RK: Where did you go to college? What did you major in?

KB: I went to Texas A&M my freshman year, but big school life and learning was not for me. I transferred home to Houston Baptist University the next year and graduated with dual majors in Mass Media and Psychology. My favorite class in college was a Media class on Alfred Hitchcock movies!

RK: Did you receive any financial aid?

KB: I actually did not receive any financial aid while in college. Tuition wasn’t nearly as high back then, and I lived at home and worked full time to help with the cost of attending a private university.

RK: How did you come to work in the college sector?

KB: A few years after graduating from college, I got married and moved to College Station, where my husband was a student at Texas A&M. I got a job working at Foley’s (now Macy’s), and a coworker told me about a Financial Aid Clerk position that was open in the Financial Aid Office at A&M, where she worked full time.

I applied and got the job! Less than a year later, I applied for a Financial Aid Advisor position and was hired. Little did I know that a Financial Aid Clerk position would turn into a 32-year career in higher education financial aid!

RK: What was your favorite part about being an advisor?

KB: I loved working directly with students to help them make their educational dreams a reality. There is nothing more rewarding than to see a student that you met with as a potential freshman – nervous and wide-eyed – walk confidently across the stage at graduation, knowing you played a role in making that happen.

RK: What were a few of the challenges you ran into?

KB: Navigating sensitive financial situations was definitely challenging at times, especially when families weren’t sure if they could afford for their student to attend a small, private, liberal arts university.

It was my job to thoroughly explain all of the options, show families how to find additional funding (RED KITE!), save on expenses like free room and board by being a Resident Advisor, and look into loan options. More often than not, families were able to make it work!

RK: Can you share an experience you had with a student that stuck in your mind?

KB: I had the absolute pleasure and privilege of working with so many amazing students. I had students who are now lawyers, business owners, teachers, a playwriter… even a student who is auditioning to be on Broadway!

Each student was unique and had amazing potential.  I have been invited to graduation parties, weddings, baby showers, and theater performances. I remain close to many students and their parents.

RK: What advice would you give to college students today?

KB: As a Financial Aid Advisor, I always encouraged high school students to start researching scholarship opportunities early and apply for as many scholarships as possible. Once a student was in college, I encouraged them to continue to apply for scholarships. So many students think you can only apply as an incoming freshman.

I also encouraged students to get involved in organizations on campus to help build a sense of community. It’s also important to get a job on campus; not only to earn spending money, but also to learn how to manage their time, gain job experience, and meet a subset of folks on campus they might not have met otherwise.

I encouraged students to apply to be a Resident Advisor in the residence halls. Being an RA usually means room and board are covered by the school. It is also great resume material, since it shows leadership responsibility.

I encouraged every student to contact me if their financial situation changed, or if they were struggling to buy books or pay for living expenses. There are so many resources on campus to help students. They just need to ask.

RK: Why do you believe that Red Kite is a valuable resource for students?

KB: Red Kite is an invaluable resource for students and parents! College can be expensive, and Red Kite can help find free money to assist with the cost. A student or parent completes a quick survey, and the student is instantly matched to over 25 billion dollars in scholarship funds! How easy and amazing is that?!?

 

RK: To you, why do you think it is important for students to pursue higher education?

KB: Continuing your education after high school at a college, university, or technical school is important for several reasons. It provides students with specialized skills and knowledge that can significantly improve job prospects, increase earning potential and open doors to a wider range of career options.

A 4-year college or university education is not for everyone. Community colleges and technical schools offer amazing opportunities for practical, hands-on training and lifelong critical thinking, communication, and problem-solving skills.  Post secondary education helps students find their passions and reach their full potential.

Kim’s insights shed light on the critical role that financial aid advisors play in helping students fund their education. She emphasizes the importance of being proactive throughout your college journey.

It’s clear that with dedication and the right resources, students can overcome financial obstacles and focus on building a brighter future.

Be sure to explore tools like Red Kite, our simplified scholarship search. With access to over $25 billion in scholarships, Red Kite connects students with opportunities tailored to their unique needs and goals.

Whether you’re just beginning your college journey or are already enrolled, remember that there’s support available. Don’t hesitate to reach out for help.

Your education is an investment in yourself. With Red Kite, you can unlock a future full of possibilities.

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10 Ways to Save Money on College Textbooks

The rumors are true… college textbooks are outrageously expensive.

On average, first-year college student spend over $1,200 on textbooks and course materials. A single textbook can cost hundreds of dollars.

But here’s the good news: you don’t have to empty your wallet to get the resources you need to succeed in your courses. Whether you’re a freshman navigating your first semester or a seasoned senior looking to save, there are plenty of strategies to cut down on costs.

Let’s explore a few different ways to save on college textbooks, so you can spend less time stressing about money and more time focusing on your education.

  1. Buy Used Books

Look for secondhand copies, which can be found in bookstores or online. Your campus bookstore is your best resource, but you might also consider websites such as Chegg or ThriftBooks.

Used books are often half the original price, or even less.

 

 

  1. Rent Textbooks

Services like Amazon and eCampus offer rental options for textbooks.

This is especially beneficial for books you don’t want to own permanently.

 

  1. Check the Library

Many college libraries keep course textbooks on reserve.

You can borrow them for short-term use or check if they have copies for extended loans.

  1. Use Older Editions

Textbooks don’t always change drastically between editions.

Ask your professor if an older edition will work.

 

  1. Share with a Classmate

Team up with a friend to split the cost of a book. Just be sure to coordinate study times!

Additionally, upperclassmen might be willing to lend or sell their textbooks at a discount. Ask around in student groups or clubs.

 

  1. Digital or eBooks

Digital versions of textbooks are often cheaper than print. Websites like VitalSource and Google Books offer affordable e-textbooks.

You can buy from online marketplaces like Amazon, eBay, and AbeBooks, where you can often compare prices and find used, heavily discounted textbooks.

Also, some textbooks are available as free PDFs. Try searching online or checking sites like OpenStax, which offers free textbooks in various subjects.

 

  1. Check Facebook Groups

Many schools have book exchange groups where students sell books directly to each other.

Of course, be sure to practice proper safety precautions when arranging an online sale. Bring a friend when you go to meet up with the seller.

 

  1. Scholarships for Books

Some scholarships specifically cover textbook costs. These scholarships are often overlooked because students tend to focus on those that help with tuition, but they can be a game-changer.

Book-specific scholarships provide funds dedicated to course materials, such as required textbooks, lab manuals, and even access codes for online platforms.

Platforms like Red Kite make finding these opportunities easier than ever. In less than 6 minutes, you can create a profile and answer a few questions about your background, interests, and financial needs. Then we’ll match you with scholarships specific to YOU – including ones that focus on book costs.

It’s a hassle-free way to discover and apply for aid that you might not have found otherwise. Think of it as a double win: not only do you save on books, but you also free up funds for other essentials.

Take a little time to search for scholarships aimed at reducing textbook expenses. You might be surprised at how much you can save!

  1. Participate in Book Swaps

At the beginning and/or end of each semester, many campuses host book swap events.

Join these events in order to to trade books with your classmates. You might even try organizing one yourself!

 

  1. Consider Textbook Subscription Services

Some platforms, like Cengage Unlimited, offer access to a range of textbooks for a subscription fee, which can be cheaper than buying multiple books.

Textbooks don’t have to drain your bank account. With a little effort and creativity, you can find plenty of ways to save money.

From renting and buying used textbooks, to exploring scholarships that specifically cover book expenses, there are options for every budget.

Remember, every dollar you save is one step closer to achieving your academic goals without unnecessary financial stress.

So, before you shell out hundreds on that brand-new textbook, try out some of these money-saving tips. Your wallet – and your future self – will thank you!

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Don’t Give Up – How to Survive Scholarship Rejections

So, you just got rejected from a scholarship… 🤘😔🤘Highkey the worst feeling in the world. But this is not the end, y’all! Far from it!

I totally get it – you’ve put in hours perfecting your application, crafting essays, meeting deadlines… all for a big ole “no.”

It’s okay to take some time to process your disappointment. The most important thing is to not give up! Ya girl Jane is here with some steps to get you back on the scholarship train.

1. Remember, Rejection is Part of the Process

We all know that scholarships are highly competitive, but it doesn’t mean you aren’t deserving. There are a lot of students competing for the same awards, and sometimes it just comes down to numbers, or other factors out of your control.

But this doesn’t mean your application wasn’t good! Usually, a scholarship rejection just means that this particular opportunity wasn’t the right fit.

Each rejection is part of the journey to finding the scholarship meant for YOU.

2. Reflect, Don’t Dwell

Trust me, it’s easy to focus on the disappointment. But this is actually a great opportunity for reflection! After you finish that giant tub of consolatory chocolate ice cream, try channeling your negative feelings into something productive.

Let’s plan any necessary tweaks to your strategy. Ask yourself a few constructive questions:

  • Did I meet all the criteria?

  • Could I improve my essay or interview skills?

  • Could I apply to more scholarships that match my unique strengths?

Use this to fuel positive change in your approach, and be sure not to dwell (for too long, at least…) on what didn’t go right. This is the time to get determined, besties!

3. Seek Feedback (When Possible)

Believe it or not, some scholarship providers are open to giving feedback on applications. It sounds scary, but what do you have to lose?

If you’re comfortable, you might consider reaching out to ask if they can share any insights on your submission. Feedback is valuable – what you learn could help you make a stronger application next time.

And even if feedback isn’t available, the practice of asking shows your commitment to improvement. Maybe they’ll remember you took this initiative next time around!

Plus, scholarship providers aren’t your only resource for feedback. Ask your parents, teachers, and/or other advisors – anyone who might be able to lend a fresh perspective on your application.

4. Reframe Rejection as a Stepping Stone

Think of each scholarship rejection as one step closer to success. Many successful scholarship recipients faced numerous rejections before landing their awards… like me.

It’s all about reframing setbacks as part of your growth. With each application, you’re building resilience, gaining experience, and increasing your chances of a future win.

5. Broaden Your Search

If you’re only applying to a small pool of highly competitive scholarships, it might be time to cast a wider net. Many students focus only on big-name national scholarships, but these often attract thousands of students.

Instead, try branching out! For example, local scholarships often have fewer applicants, which means less competition… AKA, a better shot at winning!

Also, Red Kite can connect you with hundreds of scholarships tailored to your own personal interests. Our platform offers over $25 billion in scholarships, grants, and loans!

It’s like having a personal scholarship matchmaker, introducing you to opportunities you may not even know exist. So don’t limit yourself – sometimes the perfect scholarship is one you haven’t even heard of yet.

6. Celebrate Your Effort

Applying for scholarships is an achievement in itself! Not everyone puts in the work to find and apply for financial aid opportunities, but you’re showing dedication to your education and future.

Maybe I sound like a broken record, but every application really does represent growth and commitment. So take a moment to celebrate your effort, regardless of the outcome. Get some Chipotle or take a long, hot bubble bath… you deserve it!

7. Keep Applying – Your Next “Yes” is Out There!

Scholarship rejections are only the end of the road if you decide that. The key to success is to never give up, no matter what!

Keep applying, learning, and refining your approach. With persistence, you’ll find scholarships that recognize your potential.

Hundreds of millions of dollars worth of scholarship money goes unused every year, so trust me when I say that there’s plenty for you out there. You just have to find your place in the spotlight!

Each application brings you one step closer to that “yes” you’ve been waiting for.

Rejection isn’t easy, but it doesn’t define your worth or your future.

Keep pushing forward, and remember: it’s all worth it in the end. Just think: you’re so close to reducing your debt and creating a more stress-free college experience for yourself!

You have what it takes to achieve your academic dreams, and your scholarship success story is still waiting to unfold.

You know what I always say, team: believe in yourself. It’s the #1 rule to life, especially when it comes to scholarships!

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Scholarships for Introverts

No doubt that every introvert’s nightmare is having to prove that you’re the coolest, most confident student ever… AKA, scholarships.

And for my Kitelings who might prefer a “look-at-phone-in-bed” sort of day to going out and getting turnt, I wanted to put together a short guide to some chill financial aid pathways.

There’s no need to be the best at a particular sport or give a speech in front of a panel of judges. I’m talking cozy study corners, thoughtful essays, and earl grey tea, people!

I, myself, am an ambivert, which means a combination of both introvert and extrovert. So I totally get having those days where even going to the grocery store feels like sensory overload.

Never fear, my scholarship peers! (Sorry.) Let’s get into all the ways you can pay for college… without leaving the house.

Guys, I looked up “introvert” on Unsplash, and this was the first image that came up. Am I allowed to laugh? Like, is he okay? The drama… me.

First things first, let’s remember that being an introvert is not a negative thing. Everybody functions differently – for example, I wish that it was perfectly acceptable to wake up at 3 PM every day, but that’s neither here nor there.

In fact, introverts have superpowers that often fly under the radar. It’s true that extroverts can dazzle admissions offices by putting on a show, but introverts were bred for the scholarship scene.

Just think: for many people, it’s super difficult to sit still long enough to crank out an essay, or fill out those tedious, repetitive questions on scholarship applications. You’ve been training for this kind of patience your entire life!

Plus, not every scholarship involves standing in front of a room full of people, or – dun dun dun – group projects. It’s time to embrace your solo side:

Essay-Based Scholarships

As I mentioned earlier, while some people break into a cold sweat at the thought of writing a 500-word essay, you might be like, “Only 500? I can knock that out in my sleep.😎”

Better yet, these types of scholarships are practically designed for those who thrive in quiet reflection and articulate self-expression!

Scholarship essays give you the perfect opportunity to channel your thoughts, opinions, and even your witty commentary into something productive.

Take, for example, the Optimist International Essay Contest. It’s essentially asking you to grab a cup of coffee, sink into your favorite comfy chair, and be positive!

No public speaking, no networking, no need to be the life of the party – just you and your brain, quietly doing what it does best. And this one’s fun!

Take your time, craft your thoughts, and then put them on paper in a way that feels natural. The best part is that your effort could turn into real dollars for your education!

Creative Scholarships

If your creativity runs deeper than your YouTube “To Watch” list (no judgment), there are scholarships out there just waiting for your brilliance. And you can express yourself without having to talk to a single person.

Whether your passion lies in art, design, or even video creation, there are opportunities where your creativity can speak volumes for you.

Imagine submitting a powerful short film or a piece of visual art that captures your unique perspective. You get to channel your imagination into something tangible.

Scholarships like the Scholastic Art & Writing Awards, for instance, allow you to showcase your artistic talents. It’s your creativity on your terms, and it could lead to some serious scholarship cash!

Research or STEM Scholarships

Now, for my more left-brained peeps, many STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering and Mathematics) scholarships are based on academic performance or research projects.

The Regeneron Science Talent Search rewards students who can crack the code on scientific research. Whether that’s discovering a new species or figuring out how to make cereal stay crunchy longer (just a suggestion), if you’re interested in STEM, you should definitely take a crack at this one!

Service or Volunteer-Based Scholarships

Just because you’re an introvert doesn’t mean you can’t make an impact in your community! In fact, introverts provide some of the most essential local work, such as library and information services, IT and tech support, and environmental services.

Scholarships for volunteer work give you a chance to showcase the difference you’re making. Colleges are looking beyond GPAs for students who take the extra step.

For example, The Offline Mode Scholarship recognizes students who have been quietly saving the world by not using their phones while driving. Introverted superheroes!

Tips for Introverts Trying to Survive (and Win) the Scholarship Process

  1. Lean Into Your Uniqueness: Let’s face it – you’re probably not going to enjoy standing in front of a crowd delivering a Ted Talk anytime soon. (Unless it’s about Beyoncé. [Just me? Okay…]) Instead, look for scholarships that let you show off your written, creative, or research skills.

 

  1. Create a Scholarship Fortress of Solitude: Every introvert needs their quiet place. A coffee shop, your bedroom, an undisclosed cave somewhere… find a focus zone where you feel comfortable.

 

  1. Avoid the “Fake It Till You Make It” Trap: The world may want you to be a social butterfly, but guess what? You’re amazing just as you are. No need to pretend to be someone you’re not. Your authentic, introverted self is more than enough to win scholarships.

 

  1. Take Breaks from Overthinking: We know you like to think things through, but don’t let your overthinking spiral into the dreaded “I’ll start my application tomorrow” black hole. Give yourself plenty of time by starting early and taking plenty of rest.

Introverts, you’ve got what it takes to win scholarships without ever leaving your pillow fort. By leaning into your strengths, avoiding the high-pressure, spotlight-heavy opportunities, and taking your time to craft killer essays, you’ll be raking in scholarship money in no time!

Ready to get started? Red Kite can help you every step of the way!

We’ll personalize your financial aid results to help you find scholarships that fit YOU.

Whether you’re a quiet genius, a master of creative arts, or the person who just really loves sitting alone with your thoughts, you can start your search today!

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What is a “No Essay” Scholarship?

There’s a growing trend in the world of financial aid: “No Essay” scholarships.

When you think of applying for scholarships, the image that probably comes to mind is spending hours writing essays.

Scholarship essays are great opportunities to detail your achievements and share your personal story. But writing essays can be time-consuming and mentally exhausting, especially if you’re applying to several scholarships at once.

While many scholarships require this level of commitment, the “No Essay” scholarship offers a simpler alternative.

But what exactly is a “No Essay” scholarship? Is it too good to be true? Let’s break it down.

As the name suggests, a “No Essay” scholarship is a type of financial aid award that doesn’t require students to write a paper as part of the application process.

Instead, these scholarships focus on more straightforward criteria, such as filling out a form, meeting basic eligibility requirements (like being a high school or college student), or entering a simple contest.

These scholarships are popular because they remove one of the biggest hurdles for students: the time-consuming essay. (Although, here at Red Kite, we’ve got plenty of resources to help you tackle scholarship essays!)

Without the need for personal statements or reflections on life experiences, students can apply quickly and easily.

In most cases, “No Essay” scholarships have simple applications that often take only a few minutes to complete. Here’s what you might expect when applying:

  • Basic Information: In the overwhelming majority of scholarships – “No Essay” or otherwise – you’ll be asked to provide general information, like your name, contact details, and school.
  • Eligibility Check: Some “No Essay” scholarships have certain criteria requirements. These might include being a current student, having a minimum GPA, or being in a specific age group.
  • Random Drawing or Quick Application: Many of these scholarships are awarded through random drawings. However, some “No Essay” scholarships might ask for you to complete small, specific tasks (like following a social media page).

“No Essay” scholarships appeal to both students and scholarship providers. For students, it’s a chance to apply for financial aid with little effort, giving them more time to focus on other responsibilities.

For providers, these scholarships are a great way to engage with a large pool of applicants and raise awareness about their organization or brand.

Many organizations use “No Essay” scholarships as a way to introduce students to their products, services, or causes. By making the entry process simpler, scholarship providers can appeal to and connect with more students.

Most “No Essay” scholarships are legitimate. However, as with any type of financial aid, it’s important to do your research. You always want to make sure a scholarship is from a trusted source.

At Red Kite, we vet scholarships carefully to ensure students are applying for credible opportunities that will truly benefit their educational journey.

Tips for Applying

Even though “No Essay” scholarships are easy to apply for, you still want to maximize your chances of success.

  1. Apply Early and Often: Since many of these scholarships are awarded via random drawing, the more you apply, the better your chances of winning.
  2. Watch for Deadlines: These scholarships can be offered monthly, quarterly, or even yearly, so it’s important to track deadlines.
  3. Don’t Overlook Other Scholarships: While “No Essay” scholarships are great, don’t limit yourself. Take time to apply for other scholarships that may require essays but offer bigger awards. Red Kite can help match you to scholarships that align closely with your interests.

The “No Essay” scholarship is for the busy student. It’s an excellent option for people who might not have the time or energy to write lengthy essays, yet still want to increase their chances of earning financial aid.

With minimal effort required, these scholarships provide an easy way to fund your education. Be sure to sign up for Red Kite Premium for a curated list of “No Essay” scholarships!

Enjoy Red Kite Premium at no cost until December 31, 2024. Start browsing today and take advantage of these quick and easy applications.

And who knows? You could be just a few clicks away from winning a scholarship that helps you cover your college costs!

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5 Fun Facts About Scholarships

Here at Red Kite, we love helping students find scholarships!

And we’re not just experts at connecting you with funding for your education. Ya girl1 is here to share a few of my favorite scholarship facts!

While doing research for our blog, I came across some seriously wild history. Did y’all know that scholarships have been around for hundreds of years? And don’t even get me started on all the silly goofy scholarships out there…

From grants for C-students to library dwellers (yes, that’s a thing), the world of scholarships is way more interesting than I expected. Let’s get into it!

1. The First Scholarship Was Granted in 1643

Scholarships were invented before the United States, y’all! The first recorded scholarship was created by Lady Anne Radcliffe Mowlson for Harvard University. (Also didn’t know that Harvard is that old, either…)

Lady Mowlson was born in London and immigrated to colonial America. Seven years after Harvard was founded, she left the university £100 in her will. With inflation, that’s equal to about $30,000 in 2024… imagine how many powdered wigs and horse-drawn carriages that scholarship paid for!

And her scholarship is still around today! It’s called the Lady Mowlson 1643 Fund, which has benefited students for hundreds of years through Harvard’s Radcliffe College.

Apparently, Lady Mowlson is quoted as saying the scholarship would go towards ““the maintenance of some poor schollar [sic] which shall be admitted into…Harvard[‘]s Colledge [sic].” Which… is a bit of a read, but her heart was clearly in the right place. Thank you, Lady Anne!

2. It’s estimated though that around $100 million in scholarships go unclaimed each year

You’ve heard me say it over and over again on this blog (almost as much as I’ve mentioned Beyoncé), but I still can’t get over this fact!

Before I discovered Red Kite, I had no idea there were billions of dollars of scholarships out there for students, let alone how many of those dollars go unused. It’s mainly because nobody hears about these opportunities, which is why Red Kite makes it easier than ever to personalize your financial aid.

And through our curated lists of scholarships that fit YOU, you might end up receiving a scholarship that would’ve otherwise gone unclaimed!

So, be sure to sign up for Red Kite to get started on achieving your college dreams. Think of all that cash somewhere, just waiting for a deserving student like you.

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3. David Letterman created a scholarship for the average “C student”

The former late night host David Letterman always describes himself as “an average student,” which is pretty incredible, given how talented he is! It just goes to show that grades aren’t everything, even when it comes to college success.

While many scholarships celebrate academic excellence, Letterman took a different approach. He decided to create a scholarship for telecommunications students at Ball State University (his alma mater) and target students similar to him by basing the scholarship on creativity, rather than GPA. Anybody else feeling a little better about the test they just bombed?

In order to be considered, students have to submit a creative project, such as writing, research or interactive media. The scholarship is awarded to one winner, who receives $10,000, a first runner-up who receives $5,000, and a second who receives $3,333. That’s a lot of goodies for kids who might be feeling down about their grades!

Remember my own story, people: I had a 2.7 GPA my sophomore year of high school. Yet, I was still offered hundreds of thousands of dollars worth of scholarships because I was passionate about writing. (And now I get to do it for a living!)

Of course, applying to college is so competitive, but it doesn’t have to be quite so expensive. There’s a scholarship for everyone, as the Letterman scholarship proves!

  1. A NYU student spent 8 months living in the college library

In 2004, Steven Stanzak was attending his sophomore college college at NYU. He had a 30-hour work week and a $15,000/year scholarship, but he was still struggling to pay the high costs of tuition and room and board. That problem is so real – even to this day, 20 years later!

So, bestie Steve was forced to secretly live in the basement of NYU’s Bobst Library for the majority of his sophomore year. As an English major minoring in Creative Writing and Irish studies, he decided to start writing online about his library lifestyle.

Stanzak’s story gained widespread attention – old-school viral, if you will. His story was shared in media outlets like The New York Times and NBC News. Luckily, Steve wasn’t kicked out from the library – in fact, NYU offered him free housing through the summer!

Now, don’t go around thinking that you can just secretly live on campus for free. Stanzak himself said that the situation was incredibly uncomfortable and embarrassing. It just goes to show that college students are resilient, even in the worst of circumstances. And maybe if Steve had Red Kite back then, things would’ve been different!

  1. Every year, the Chinese government offers 60 students full scholarships to North Korean universities

Here’s a scholarship perk you probably never expected—every year, the Chinese government offers 60 full scholarships for students to study in North Korea.

The winners enjoy more freedom to explore the country than regular tourists, traveling from city to city, even hopping on the Pyongyang subway. Now, this isn’t my personal cup of tea, but I thought this was an interesting idea!

North Korea is infamously a strict and highly controlled country, but the fact that scholarships can open up doorways like this is mind-blowing. I’m so curious to read about these Chinese students’ takeaways from their very unorthodox study abroad!

Well, there you have it, Kitelings. Just a few fun facts about Red Kite’s favorite subject: scholarships!

As a reminder, Red Kite is here to help match you to the financial aid you need. We’ll personalize your financial aid recommendations, walk you through the application process, and help you stay on top of deadlines.

What could be easier than that? (Well, maybe a David Letterman-style scholarship, but we’ve got you covered either way!)

 

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Why You Should List Your Scholarship on Red Kite

Red Kite’s main goal is to help financially support college students. We created www.myredkite.com to make finding scholarships easier and more accessible.

And for scholarship providers, we wanted to foster a unique opportunity to reach a vast pool of applicants. Millions of financial aid dollars go unused every year, simply because nobody applies for them.

Our Red Kite Matching Engine connects students to scholarship opportunities specific to their background, interests, and preferences. Personalizing scholarships makes lesser-known opportunities more visible, a win-win scenario for both students and providers.

Here’s why listing your scholarship(s) on Red Kite could be the best decision you make this year:

  1. Access to a Targeted Audience

Red Kite is dedicated exclusively to financial aid opportunities. Our site is ad-free and without bloat: there’s no need for a bunch of extra features.

And when you list your scholarships on our platform, you’re not just posting to a general audience – you’re reaching a highly targeted group of students who are actively seeking for financial support.

This targeted exposure not only increases the visibility of your scholarships but also significantly enhances the chances of attracting qualified applicants who are truly aligned with your criteria. Red Kite helps bridge the gap between your scholarship opportunities and the students who need them most.

 

  1. Streamlined Application Process

At Red Kite, we understand that the scholarship application process can be overwhelming for students. That’s why we’ve designed our platform to be a one-stop hub that aggregates over $25 BILLION in financial aid, making it easier than ever for students to find and apply to the ones that best fit their needs.

By consolidating scholarship listings into a single place, we eliminate the need for students to hop between multiple websites and databases. This streamlined process allows students to focus less on searching and more on applying, which can lead to a higher volume of applications for your scholarships.

But we don’t stop at just listing opportunities. We guide students through the entire application journey, ensuring they don’t miss any critical steps or deadlines. From the moment they find a scholarship to the final submission of their application, Red Kite is there every step of the way.

By offering tools to track deadlines, manage submissions, and stay organized, we help students maintain a clear path toward their financial aid goals—all in one place.

This comprehensive approach not only benefits students but also increases the likelihood that your scholarships will attract well-prepared applicants who have the support they need to successfully complete the process.

  1. Enhanced Visibility and Credibility

In today’s digital age, visibility and credibility are paramount when it comes to attracting the right applicants for your scholarships. Listing your scholarships on Red Kite provides a unique opportunity to amplify both.

Our students recognize Red Kite as a trusted, reliable source for financial aid. We’ve built our platform on a foundation of integrity, transparency, and a commitment to helping students find the best opportunities to fund their education.

Students are more likely to apply to opportunities they find on a platform they believe in, knowing that the listings are vetted and genuine. This can result in a higher quality of applications, as students who are serious about their educational pursuits and financial needs will be more inclined to engage with your offerings.

When you choose to list your scholarships with us, you’re not just increasing your visibility—you’re aligning your organization with a brand that students already trust.

 

4. Cost-Effective Marketing

Marketing your scholarships effectively is essential to attracting the right applicants, but traditional marketing methods can often be both expensive and time-consuming. At Red Kite, we offer a cost-effective alternative that allows you to reach a highly targeted audience without the need for costly ad campaigns.

As mentioned, our targeted exposure eliminates the guesswork and inefficiencies often associated with broader marketing strategies. This not only maximizes the impact of your budget but also increases the likelihood of attracting qualified applicants.

Furthermore, our platform handles the heavy lifting of promoting your scholarships, allowing you to focus on other important aspects of your program.

With Red Kite, you can achieve the reach and visibility you need without stretching your resources thin, making it a smart, cost-effective solution for marketing your scholarships to the right audience.

  1. Support for a Diverse Pool of Applicants

At Red Kite, we believe that every student, regardless of their background, should have access to the financial support they need to pursue their education. Our commitment to diversity and inclusion is part of our personalization feature, ensuring that scholarships reach students from all walks of life.

Our platform is designed to be inclusive to students from underrepresented groups who may not have the same access to traditional scholarship search methods.

By making your scholarships available on Red Kite, you help bridge the gap for these students, offering them a fair chance to compete for the financial aid they deserve.

Red Kite’s extensive reach ensures that your scholarships are seen by a diverse pool of applicants, including those who might otherwise be overlooked by conventional channels. This not only broadens the impact of your scholarship programs but also aligns your organization with values of equity and inclusion.

By supporting students from various backgrounds, you are helping to create a more diverse and inclusive academic community.

Your support helps empower students from all backgrounds to pursue their dreams, enriching both their lives and the broader academic landscape.

The cost of education continues to soar, and scholarships have never been more essential. They are the lifeline that enables countless students to pursue their academic dreams without the burden of overwhelming debt.

As a scholarship provider, you play a vital role in this process, and by partnering with Red Kite, you can amplify your impact in a meaningful way.

Listing your scholarships on Red Kite is more than just expanding your reach—it’s about making a tangible difference in the lives of students who need it the most. Our platform connects your opportunities with a diverse and motivated pool of applicants.

Through Red Kite, you can ensure that your support reaches students who might otherwise be excluded due to financial barriers, helping them achieve their academic and career aspirations.

But it’s not just about reach – it’s about impact. By choosing Red Kite, you join us in our mission to make education more accessible and equitable for all. Together, we can create pathways to success for students from all walks of life, giving them the financial support they need to focus on what really matters: their education and future.

So why wait? Take the next step in maximizing your scholarship program’s potential. List your scholarships on Red Kite today, and be part of a community dedicated to making a real difference in the world of education. Let’s work together to ensure that every deserving student has the opportunity to achieve their academic goals.

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You’ve Won a Scholarship: How to Keep It

For students entering the most competitive college applicant pool of all time, securing financial aid for education is crucial. We created Red Kite to help match our students to scholarships that are specific to their own personality and interests.

Winning a scholarship is a significant achievement, and it can help pave the way to a brighter future. But receiving a scholarship is only half the battle—scholarships often come with specific requirements that you must meet to maintain your award throughout your academic journey.

Let’s explore a few ways to ensure that you’re on track to keeping your scholarship.

1. Understand the Requirements

Before anything else, be sure to thoroughly review the terms and conditions of your scholarship. This can and should be done while initially applying to the scholarship, because any extra requirements will be listed on the application page.

And if you’ve just received notice that you’ve won a scholarship, be sure to double-check the requirements. Refreshing yourself on what is expected of you is of the utmost importance.

Scholarship requirements can vary widely, but some common stipulations include:

  • Maintaining a Minimum GPA: Many scholarships require you to maintain a certain GPA (Grade Point Average) to keep your award. Know what that number is and strive to exceed it.
  • Full-Time Enrollment: Some scholarships are only available to full-time students. Dropping below full-time status could put your scholarship at risk.
  • Participation in Activities: Some scholarships require you to participate in specific extracurricular activities, community service, or internships.

Take note of these requirements and make a plan to meet them consistently.

2. Stay on Top of Your Academics

Academic performance is often the most critical factor in maintaining your scholarship. Here are a few ways to stay on top of your courses:

Attend Classes Regularly

Your presence in class is crucial, not just for understanding the material but also for your overall grade.

Missing classes can lead to lower test scores and even the risk of losing your scholarship. Make it a nonnegotiable habit to attend every class, participate actively, and stay engaged with the course content.

Seek Help

Don’t wait until you’re overwhelmed to ask for help. If you find yourself struggling with a subject or falling behind, you should reach out for support immediately.

Whether it’s scheduling office hours with your professor, joining a study group, or seeking a tutor, early intervention can prevent small challenges from turning into bigger problems.

Time Management

Balancing your academic workload with extracurricular activities and social commitments can be a juggling act. Effective time management is key to maintaining high grades without burning out.

Start by organizing your schedule, setting priorities, and using tools like planners or digital apps to keep track of assignments and deadlines. Make sure to allocate enough time for studying, and don’t forget to include breaks to recharge.

Stay Organized

Keeping your notes, assignments, and study materials well-organized can significantly reduce stress and help you stay on top of your coursework.

Develop a system that works for you, whether it’s folders, binders, or notebooks (digital or physical). Regularly review and update your materials to ensure you’re always prepared for exams and assignments.

Set Realistic Goals

Setting academic goals can provide motivation and direction, but it’s important to keep them realistic.

Break down your larger goals into smaller, manageable tasks, and track your progress regularly. Celebrate small victories along the way, and adjust your strategies if you find yourself falling short.

Prioritize Self-Care

Academic success is closely tied to your overall well-being. Prioritize self-care by getting enough sleep, eating a balanced diet, and finding time for physical activity.

Mental health is equally important, so practice stress management techniques, such as mindfulness or relaxation exercises, to stay focused and calm under pressure.

Communicate with Your Advisors

Regularly check in with your academic advisors to ensure you’re on track with both your degree requirements and scholarship obligations.

They can provide valuable guidance on course selection, academic challenges, and career planning, helping you navigate your academic journey with confidence.

 

By staying committed to your studies and implementing these strategies, you can safeguard your scholarship and achieve academic excellence. And it looks great on your resume!

3. Communicate with Your Scholarship Provider

Keep an open line of communication with your scholarship provider. If you encounter any challenges that might affect your ability to meet the scholarship requirements, let them know as soon as possible. Many providers are willing to work with you if you show initiative and responsibility.

 

4. Renew Your Scholarship

Renewable scholarships can provide ongoing financial support throughout your academic journey, but they often require you to reapply or submit additional documentation each year. Staying on top of the renewal process is crucial to ensuring continued funding.

Track Deadlines

Missing a renewal deadline could mean losing your scholarship. Keep a calendar or set reminders for all renewal-related deadlines, including when applications open, when documents need to be submitted, and when the renewal process must be completed.

Staying organized and ahead of schedule can prevent last-minute stress and possible loss of funding. (By the way, Red Kite can help you do all of that!)

Submit Required Documents

Scholarships often require you to submit updated documents, such as transcripts, proof of enrollment, financial aid forms, or letters of recommendation.

Gather these documents well in advance and double-check that they meet the scholarship’s specific requirements. Submitting everything on time and in the correct format is essential to avoid delays or disqualification.

Write Renewal Essays

If your scholarship renewal process includes an essay, approach it with the same dedication you applied to your original application.

Reflect on your achievements over the past year, both academically and personally. Highlight how the scholarship has contributed to your success and how you’ve continued to meet or exceed the expectations set by the scholarship committee. Make your essay compelling, clear, and aligned with the values of the scholarship provider.

Keep Your GPA in Check

Maintaining a strong GPA is often a key requirement for renewing your scholarship. Continuously monitor your academic performance and seek help if you notice any areas where you’re struggling.

If your GPA dips, take proactive steps to improve it before the renewal period. Showing that you’ve taken initiative to overcome challenges can also be a positive point to include in your renewal essay.

Plan Ahead for Financial Aid

Even if your scholarship is renewable, it’s wise to have a backup plan in case something changes.

You can use Red Kite to explore other scholarship opportunities, apply for grants, or consider work-study options. Having a diversified financial aid strategy can provide security and peace of mind.

Stay Informed of Changes

Scholarship programs sometimes update their criteria or processes. Keep yourself informed about any changes by regularly checking the scholarship provider’s website or communications.

Staying updated will ensure you’re not caught off guard by new requirements or procedures.

5. Engage in Extracurricular Activities

While academics are crucial, scholarship providers also value well-rounded students. Engaging in extracurricular activities, community service, or leadership roles can demonstrate your commitment and may even be a requirement for keeping your financial aid package.

6. Monitor Your Progress

Regularly check your academic progress to ensure you’re meeting the scholarship requirements. Most schools provide online portals where you can track your GPA, credit hours, and other important metrics. If you see any red flags, take immediate action to address them.

7. Plan for the Unexpected

As we touched on before, life can be unpredictable, and you may face challenges that impact your academic performance. Whether it’s a personal issue, health problem, or financial difficulty, it’s important to have a plan in place.

  • Seek Support Services: Most colleges offer support services, such as counseling, academic advising, and financial aid offices, which can help you navigate difficult times.
  • Discuss Options: If you’re facing a significant challenge, discuss your options with your academic advisor or scholarship provider. They may offer solutions like taking a temporary leave of absence without losing your scholarship.

8. Stay Motivated

Finally, staying motivated is key to maintaining your scholarship. Remember why you applied for the scholarship in the first place while keeping your long-term goals in mind. Surround yourself with supportive friends, mentors, and resources that encourage you to succeed.

Keeping a scholarship requires diligence, responsibility, and a proactive approach. By understanding the requirements, staying on top of your academics, and engaging in extracurricular activities, you can maintain your scholarship and continue on the path to achieving your educational goals.

Remember, your scholarship is not just a financial award—it’s an investment in your future. Keep striving for excellence, and you’ll not only keep your scholarship, but also set yourself up for long-term success.

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First-Generation Financial Aid

In Part 1, Red Kite took an in-depth look at Lesley Bello’s identity as a first-generation college student. We explored her undergraduate journey, the unique challenges she faced, and how her background as a Mexican-American shaped her educational experience.

Now, as a graduate student, we’re interviewing Lesley on insights into her personal background, her academic interests, and the cultural dynamics of her immigrant family.

This week, we asked her to think back on another critical aspect of her college experience: the process of applying for financial aid. She shares her experiences navigating the complexities of the FAFSA application, various obstacles she encountered, and the support systems that helped her along the way.

How did your family prepare you to go to college? Did they help you navigate the application/financial aid process?
They did not prepare me, nor did they help me at all. They had no way to guide me, so I had to figure it out on my own. And going to college was kind of just expected of me.

 

How has your experience been similar or different to other first-gen students?
Almost all of my friends or mutuals had to deal with imposter syndrome,* financial issues, identity crises, and/or the enmeshment of our families. The only difference I noticed was in the severity of them. Many people had someone to help them in their immediate family – I think I was the only one who didn’t, or was struggling a bit more with that. It just looks different for everyone.

 

As a first-gen student, were there special resources available to you?
Yes. Thankfully, our university had a free program called Summer Bridge. They hosted incoming first-generation college students for a week and did a play-by-play of what college would entail; socially, academically, and professionally.

They also offered an additional class called STEP (Students Together Empowering Peers) that was a continuation of that summer program. This entailed first-gen mentorships, resources, etc.

There was also a BLP (Book Lending Program) that helped us with getting textbooks for courses. However, not many people knew of any of these programs, and so many people fell through the cracks. They did not have the support they could have had.

 

Were there first-gen clubs, Mexican culture classes, etc available to you on campus?
Aside from STEP, there was a First-Gen Family Club, but I wasn’t involved in it, because it was just student-led and made. I know we did have events here and there for Hispanic/Latino Heritage Month and stuff like that – things that involved all cultures. But nothing to help guide us through the financial sphere specifically.

Our university had all of its first-generation students stand at graduation (I think it was something like 30% of our class). How did that make you feel? Were you proud, embarrassed, or a mix?
Honestly, at that point in my college journey, I was so over it, I didn’t care a lot. So I guess it was a mix. They profited off of us so much, and they just did that so the university looked good. But they didn’t do it because they cared for us – they did it for THEM. The school always states that they are a Hispanic-serving institution, but they didn’t financially help us or offer other financial support or resources.

 

Did you have a college counselor? How did that benefit you or frustrate you?
I had several different college counselors. It wasn’t until my senior year that I had a solid college counselor who helped me navigate the last year and now grad school. Before him, it was just frustrating because no one would be helpful at all and once again, I had to figure it out on my own.

 

What did you wish you had known before applying to college?

I wish I had known how to take care of my mental health. Resources for how to cope with the stress. So many expectations, so many goals, pressures from other people… that just drained me. That’s the one thing I wish I’d known before.

 

Now that you’re a grad student, are you living on-campus?
Yes, in graduate housing apartments.

 

Are you working?
Yes, 3 jobs.

How was applying to graduate school different than undergrad?
I was in a preliminary teaching credential and Master’s program before I went into the program that I am now in (Master’s in Clinical Mental Health Counseling). The process was actually not that bad. Since it was the same school, I just had to change programs I was in. Definitely not as stressful as other programs, but this
was the only program I applied to, so it was a make-or-break thing.

 

How is your brother experiencing being first-gen?
My younger sibling is studying Computer Science. He is also a first-generation college student, but despite me going through the process first, he still has to deal with a lot of what I did as a first-generation student. The public school system is different than a private school, and the education/financial aid system is changing yearly.

 

Did you receive any scholarships or financial aid? If so, please tell me what that process was like, how much you received, etc.

The process of getting financial aid through the school was okay. My tuition was paid off completely – I just had to pay the difference, because it increased every year. I only attended this school because of that, especially because it is a private school.

Without the financial aid, I would not have been able to afford it. During high school and my undergrad years, I received scholarships that would then cover my tuition difference and make it more manageable. Receiving these helped so much. The only thing I had to pay for was my housing.

 

Red Kite helps connect students to scholarships so that they can avoid falling into educational debt. Do you have any debt?

No, I don’t have any debt. But I wish I had known about them before. It would’ve been so much easier.

 

What difficulties did you have with the FAFSA?
This process was so, so incredibly difficult. I almost didn’t receive any FAFSA, because I could not finish my application my first year. Because my parents did not have a social security number, I had to fill out the application differently, since they couldn’t sign it.

I had to print it out and MAIL it to them. I HAD TO DO THAT EVERY YEAR. But the first year I applied I did not know that. AND NO ONE KNEW WHAT TO DO. Not even my AVID (Advancement Via Individual Determination) teachers!

Thinking about it now, years later, I don’t know why they couldn’t help me. I don’t know how they never got a student with parents like mine. I remember that as a high school senior I would spend my days stressed out and worried about how I would pay for school. We couldn’t afford it. A family friend mentioned opening up a GoFundMe for me, but I was embarrassed and said no.

I was determined to figure it out, and eventually I did. But every year something was always wrong. I always had to speak to someone to help me with my application. Most people ask their parents or family members, but I couldn’t. I had to figure it out on my own. Even now as a grad student, I still struggle.

Lesley’s story exemplifies the resilience and determination that many first-gen students embody. Despite facing a multitude of challenges – from navigating the complex financial aid process without familial guidance, to dealing with the emotional toll of imposter syndrome – Lesley persevered and found the crucial support she needed.

Her experiences also sheds light on the systemic issues within higher education that can hinder the success of first-gen students. Insufficient institutional support is the biggest contributor to why some first-gen students fail to graduate college. Yet, some universities also highlight the power of community and the importance of resources specifically tailored for first-gen students.

As Lesley continues her academic journey in graduate school, resources like Red Kite are dedicated to minimizing the cost of college. But private institutions must do more than simply acknowledge the presence of first-gen students and capitalize off of that population for diversity purposes.

Colleges must actively provide comprehensive support to ensure first-gen success. As Lesley’s story shows, the triumphs of overcoming such obstacles are profound and deeply impactful.

Lesley is the most hard-working person I know, and I am honored to call her my closest friend. I only hope that this article series captured part of this first-gen powerhouse.

 

* ”Imposter syndrome” is defined as “the persistent inability to believe that one’s success is deserved or has been legitimately achieved as a result of one’s own effort or skills.”

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My Experience Being a First-Generation College Student

Kite Writer Jane Cooper interviews Lesley Ann Bello, a first-generation college student who balances working three jobs with attending graduate school. This is part one of two.

A Love Letter to Lesley Ann

There’s someone out in California who knows what I ate for breakfast this morning. She’s on her way to class in her heather-gray Nissan, blasting the new Zayn album at top volume.

As a grad student working three jobs, her schedule’s pretty packed, but she still manages to find time to drive 20 miles to visit her mom in Fontana. She also bakes – blondies and brownies are her specialty.

Lesley Ann Bello and I met in a Class of 2023 group chat that was created the summer before our freshman year. And when the COVID-19 pandemic hit when we were sophomores, our online friendship was solidified.

As seniors, we roomed together in the dorms – our University requires its undergraduates to live on-campus for all 4 years – and we often talk about that year as if we spent it abroad in Paris, instead of a 200-square-foot closet.

“If only we could go back,” I texted one day.

“Going to call the University and ask them to rent the dorm out to us for 10 years,” she responded.

I wanted to sit down and interview her about what it was like to be a first-generation student at our university. Neither of Lesley’s parents attended college, and coming from a Mexican immigrant family, she faced struggles and pressures unique only to first-gens.

In Part 2 of this article, we explore her experience applying to scholarships and financial aid, including FAFSA difficulty, her transition into graduate school, and the college application process that left her with little guidance.

For now, let’s get to know Lesley Ann Bello, the hardest worker I know.

“Ann is not my middle name,” she clarifies. “I have two first names and one last name. Lesley Ann… Bello.”

 

Introduction

Where are you from?
I’m from San Bernadino, California.

 

Where are your parents from?
My parents are from Veracruz, Mexico.

 

When did they move to the US?
In 1998, so about 26 years ago.

 

How many siblings did your parents have?
My mom had four siblings, and my dad had 7.

 

Did your parents attend college?
They did not attend college. My mom has a middle school education level, and my dad has a high school education level. However, in Mexico they have their version of a vocational/trade school, and my mom received an informational secretary education. My dad graduated high school on track to be an engineer.

 

How many siblings do you have? Are they in college?
I have a younger brother (19), who is studying Computer Science at a Californian university.

 

What degree(s) did you graduate with?
I graduated with a BA in Psychology and a minor in Studio Art.

The First-Generation Experience

What does it mean to you to be a first-generation college student? How has that affected your time in college?
I realized early on that I had to stand up for myself, because no one else would; especially in the education system that sets POC (people of color) up to fail. Being first-gen means being an advocate for both myself and those coming after me. I want to set an example that we are not just a statistic – we can do this, and we will be something in life.

First-gens are not just numbers or faces on a brochure. We have something to give to this world. It means we need to work harder than others, because we don’t have things handed to us. During college, this made me question if I could really do it. But I knew my family was relying on me to set the example for my younger brother and our family friends.

 

How closely is your culture tied to your identity?
This is something that I have been thinking about a lot more as an adult. It has taken me a long time to be comfortable with who I am and where I come from. Growing up, I would say my culture was not tied to my identity. If anything, I tried to stay away from my culture. I didn’t really want to be associated with that. I hated my brown, tan skin.

I didn’t want to engage/participate in Mexican related activities. Like being in Folklorico dance classes, or wearing Mexican-related attire. I don’t know where that came from, because I grew up in a primarily Hispanic-dominant town. I didn’t have many white friends or relationships. But being Mexican-American was all I knew.

Now, as an adult, I try really hard to incorporate it into my life and my identity. I take pride in my culture. Not many people can say that their Mexican parents made a life of their own here, all by themselves. So this is a mixed-feelings response.

 

What struggles did you have because you’re a first-gen college student?
I had no support system that could help or guide me when navigating college, both as an undergraduate and now as a grad student. I relied heavily on the support system I created on campus. Without that, I would have probably dropped out.

I would not be who I am today without my mentors, who helped me tremendously – and still do. They assisted me with so much – doing professional interviews, helping me with applications, etc. I didn’t know how to do any of that. I didn’t even know what to expect, and they prepared me for that. None of my family or family friends have attended college, so I was/am on my own for the majority of this journey.

Privilege was something I did not have to witness until I attended college and was exposed to different things. As the oldest in a Mexican household, I did everything on my own. I had to become independent very early on. But to see other students with so much privilege was astonishing.

I had to remind people so often that things were different for me; that I couldn’t do everything they did. I didn’t have the financial stability many had. Having to explain that was so difficult and repetitive. It was annoying. It made me frustrated with who I was, and why this had to be my life. I wanted what other people had, and it was a feeling that stuck with me for so long.

I also still had the responsibility of my family, even if I was living on campus. I was still tied to my parents. Most of the time, I had to be the parent. Not everyone understood that. Eventually I realized this was called imposter syndrome, which is something common among many first-gen students.

Did you work during college? How difficult was it to find the balance between school,

family, and work?
Yes. I started off with one job during college, but then ended up with 2 jobs during my junior year all the way until I graduated. I definitely struggled more than I would like to say with balancing work, school, and family. No one taught me how to have a balance, so it was unhealthy.

I still am learning how to have a healthy balance. I had a lot of sleepless nights, because I didn’t prioritize and I procrastinated a lot. I definitely used work as an excuse as to why I would fall behind, when all I needed was better organizational and scheduling skills.

 

What does your family think about you going to college? How do they support you or
make things more difficult?
Oof. I think my mom is proud – she doesn’t really say that, so I will speak for her. However, she is supportive in her own ways. It has taken me a while to realize that. My brother is in school, so he knows that education is important. I hope this makes him go to graduate school as well. However, they sometimes do make this journey difficult.

Boundaries is something they struggle with, so it makes it hard to concentrate on school when I also need to be present with family. My dad views this as just me going to school so I can receive a bigger check when I start my career. He doesn’t realize that I am in this to help other people and to assist those who need it. That’s the major difference in the support I get from my parents. My mom understands the importance of what I want to do, but my dad doesn’t.

 

Do you feel that some universities capitalize off of their first-generation students for marketing/diversity purposes?
It is so frustrating. Like, yes, it’s great that we get exposure, but also… not. Half the time, it isn’t even that diverse – it’s just a lie. The funny part is that when the photographers are around, they go looking for the POC first-gen kids. It’s like they can smell you. We would always stay away from them.

 

What elements of your culture did you bring to school?
My mom’s cooking. Almost everyone would eat it or know about it. It was nice to have that aspect of my culture on campus. Especially seeing my friends eat it, or when I would bring them home. I would also teach some friends certain sayings in Spanish. Sometimes our cultures would overlap, or they would be curious and I would teach them something about my traditions. That was always fun.

 

Is there anything else you’ve learned from your experiences and/or from other
first-generation students?
Having a support system and community is so important, and I am so thankful for mine. Without this, I would not have survived college. I have learned that being first-gen can mean many different things, and that we need to come together rather than trying to be better than each other. All we really want is to belong and, to feel wanted, heard, and welcomed. We are stronger and bigger than what people think.

 

Stay tuned for Part 2, in which we explore Lesley’s perspective on the first-generation financial aid process.

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